Hi all, just seeking some advice as to an appropriate gift i could take when meeting a WW2 vet that has invited me into his home. A bit of background, i was doing some research into my Grandfathers WW2 service and came across the details of a man who served with my grandfather in Papua New Guinea. I got in contact with him and he has kindly invited me over to his house to discuss his service, the unit he was in with my Grandfather, and show me some photos etc. I'd like to take him a gift as a small token of my appreciation, but i am struggling to come up with something suitable. Any thoughts? Cheers
Mate the REAL easy one is alcohol...usually beer (but these days theres too much to choose from, you can put a bloke off getting the wrong beer like xxxx for example...Ha! Queensland muck.) So i would ring his wife to find out what his poisen is...actually, you might get him into trouble, scrub that. He may even like a good quality spirit...bring a selection, and find out for next time. Other than that i would reccomend just listening intently as a gift...dont cut his sentences off...and introduce things you know as questions, not statements.
RtW, Possibly donuts or something you both could enjoy while you listen and he talks? Then on your Next visit you'll have an idea of what he might like. Main thing like CAC said, just showing your interest and willingness to visit for starters.
I agree with CAC and Biak: bring some drinks (beer is usually appreciated by older gentlemen) or a snack. Another option would be to loan him a good WW2 book that you have (maybe something on the SW Pacific). I'd hold off on the gift until you get to know him better.
I agree with this completely. Alcohol is appreciated by many if not most. However, if he happens to be a recovering alcoholic, it might be a bit awkward. Also, sweets most likely will be okay unless he happens to be diabetic. I like the idea of sharing a book. However, I think that if you show him your respect and appreciation of his service, that is also a gift that will be appreciated.
Don't know if this is completely relevant but my dad (a WWII vet) very much enjoyed reading and re-reading Ernie Pyle's book from time to time. I don't know how hard it would be to get a copy today but my dad and me passed the book back and forth many times over the years. If I asked a lot of questions he would hand me this book as he viewed his personal experience to be much like Ernie Pyle would describe.
Thanks guys, for taking the time to respond with your suggestions. I think i'll take a few snacks, and great book to loan him on all the action that took place in Papua New Guinea during the war (called 'A bastard of a place', best read so far on the allied efforts in PNG). I'll let you know how it goes, and what yarns he has to share. He mentioned that he is one of only two remaining members left from his unit. Before too many more years are up the last of the greatest generation will have left us to be reunited with their mates, gotta take these chances whilst we can. CAC, i would never buy anyone the pisswater that is XXXX, gotta be tooheys new all the way haha
